I'm 34, I have a good face, body and even brain. My mind overrides everything else so if i click with someone its due to their ability to both inspire and entertain me with their minds. Conversation is integral in sexual encounters and foreplay so I want someone to be able to hold their own in a debate or theoretical discussion. Intelligence turns me on... oh, physical things... i like smooth genetalia and have a problem with people who dont shave or wax (etc) closely. I don't like long, thin penises. And I definately like women as much if not more than men. I guess I'm looking to talk to women primarily.. i have only been with one (for a long time) so don't have that much experience. I would really like to meet female like minds... males too, if you've got one.